I feel the same as you--I think I'm done, then I think I want him to be the one to end it (file) because why should I? And then I get scared and hope he won't.

I have days when I feel this way, Hope. I doubt my H will ever file as he hates attorneys. He will continue to stall until I do something, I'm pretty certain. Two weeks ago he was to set up an appt with his accountant to get some financial info and then get back to me so that we could sit down and work our our settlement. Haven't heard a word on this yet. Some days I am so tired of the situation my life is in, I tell myself to just go file and let the lawyers fight it out.

My NYresolution was "I will move forward. I will not stand still. I will not go backwards." I intend to keep to that.

You DO seem a lot stronger, Hope. I know none of this is easy.

Hope tomorrow is better for you.

Spitfire

Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest.
Mark Twain