I guess every case is different but I know with my H., he told me last month that o.w. said he is depressed. I know they have had their share of problems; perhaps he's become comfortable enough with her (after 9 mo. together) to show this side to her as well. He did remark to me this past week that she's been telling him to go home; I don't know why, but maybe she's seen some of his truer colors lately.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
