Hi Al, Spitfire and NY S,

Thanks for checking in on me. I'm ok. Still sad of course but as I said, I'm turning it all over in my mind and seeing how this happened to H. and our R. You know, no matter what he tries to say about it, I don't believe he can have a healthy, lasting relationship with o.w. or anybody right now. He would have a lot of changing and growing up to do first, and it is evident that he is not working on himself in that way.
I still wish he had it in him to try for us.
The snow has stopped, so I have go dig myself out and get to the store today. Hope everyone is having a good day.


Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.