I need to do this if I'm going to be able to fully detach and let go of him. I'm seeing the light as I look back on our marriage and his behavior through those years.
I found it's bunch of this and some of that, with other thisses and thats thrown into the mix. It gives an understanding to some degree, and then you can deal from there. In my case, it had me understand not only the possible whys but that WAW was likely never in a place to have a fruitful relationship. I also learned that I wasn't there yet either.
