Detachment is key. You must do it for you. It is wonderful that she is begining to see what she has done. As others have said, give her time to reflect. Don't push her ( R talks ) just do as you can, being there for her - to LISTEN. Time is on your side...
M: 35; Together 14 years - married 5.5 no children Bomb 22-JAN-2005; D a few months later First real relationship post D just ended ( 7 months ):(
