You know snodderly, what I got yesterday out of the fight, well it wasnt much of a fight more of a discusion with her mother and I and her. It was why would you want to be with a woman who has had an affair and slept around some. I dont think this family really truely knows what love is.
And maybe im just justifying it in my own mind? She started the affair on a Thursday and ask for a seperation on Staurday. Since then we have not been together so what she did is what she did. I to could of dated, slept around I just chose not to. She did not keep the affair from me for more then a week, she knew in her heart she could not stay married and still see this man.
So can I forgive her for all the rest of the stuff since we have been seperated? I think so, I just need her to make her way thru this and come out the other end and understand she does have a good man right in front of her.
