Falcon, I'm so sorry to hear about your Auntie's passing. She lived a full life and she's right there w/you each and every day. Cherish those memories and pull them out when you are feeling down.
If you do speak to her, keep the conversaton on an even keel. Don't confront her or tell her what she's not been doing. When point out the error of her ways, she's going to come out swinging and be pushed further away. You're going to learn more about this as you go along.
Take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
