Alot of you know my story, wife hit MCL at 37, had an affair, went a bit nuts over the last 7 months, the tatoos, drinking, smoking, sex, she has hit them all. Well the divorce that she wanted is now final. No cort or anything like that, jsut a simple divorce.
She has in the last month really started to feel the pain she has caused everyone with the affair and the other stuff. She lost her car, almost got kicked out of her house she rents, her grandfather died, my sons G/Fs dad was murdered. All of this has happend in a short period of time.
She now is starting to own up to the mess she caused. On the night of the divorce was final I text her this, "For the first time in 19 years im going to bed and your not my wife" she text back "Werid, and sad hu" I text back "Yea very sad and im sorry it turned out this way" She text back "Dont say your sorry Im the one who Fed this all up, Sorry"
So she is starting to see the light I think. I ask her lastnight if she was happy the divorce was final she said she does not feel any differnt then she did 4 days ago.
I know she still loves me, last Sunday I had to get her a car so she could work and pay her rent, I said to her " So im ok to take care of you when you are sick and get you a car but im not ok to be your husband" she said "Its not you, im such a bad person I cant be your wife right now".
She needs some theropy and I hope she does go soon, do you think its over forever? I do still love her so much, we get along great without the other crap. I just hope she gets out of this MCL soon, I think I see the signs of it.
