Just_Me......thanks for the post. Now that I think about it, you are so right. We focus so much on ourselves when we are seperated and moving on, that when/if DB works, we don't know what to do. Gee...I wasn't even aware the was anything in those books about what to do if you are successful!!!!!

I wish I still had my books, I haven't bought them again yet. I think I need to go get them and reread. Again.

Thanks again for the insights. It really gives me something to think about.


I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.


Me-32
WAH-35
DD-11
DS-4
H left 11-03
Piecing- 12/04
WAH again- 03/07
Married 12 years
Divorce final May 15, 2007