Just_Me......thanks for the post. Now that I think about it, you are so right. We focus so much on ourselves when we are seperated and moving on, that when/if DB works, we don't know what to do. Gee...I wasn't even aware the was anything in those books about what to do if you are successful!!!!!
I wish I still had my books, I haven't bought them again yet. I think I need to go get them and reread. Again.
Thanks again for the insights. It really gives me something to think about.
I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.
Me-32 WAH-35 DD-11 DS-4 H left 11-03 Piecing- 12/04 WAH again- 03/07 Married 12 years Divorce final May 15, 2007