Where's my pot of gold?

[StrongEnough]

Thanks AK. Maybe Newcomer's is where I belong. I really need to start over with a fresh mind and new attitude.

H and I have done a lot of talking today. We both agree that it wasn't healthy the way things have been going. We have been back together too long to still be going through some of the stuff we are. He is staying at a hotel, giving me time to think about what I want to do. Last night, when he left, he left his wedding band on my bureau. In this house, and in our life, that's a strong statement. I figured he was done. He called me this morning, asked if I needed anything at the store, and then he stopped by. After we were done talking, he went to get some more clothes and he put his ring back on. He really wants to try and work this out.....and we both need to make changes in order for that to happen, he needs to control his temper and anger and I need to let down my super thick wall.

He is giving me time to figure out whether or not I can do that.

Now, for the New England DB'ers club, I would be honored to be a member. As long as I am not expected to flirt with the waitresses too!