You know what he wants, he knows what you want. You can wait for him to give you what you want or you can take some steps towards giving him what he wants. Your best bet at "control" of this situation is to focus on you, right? Which would imply that your best bet of getting what you want is to make some motions towards him...
Can you see yourself doing this?
Let me also suggest this...what if you viewed this as your h not just asking for physical intimacy but him telling you "I need to feel as though you've started the process of forgiving me and are ready to move forward in our M".
It seems to me there's real potenitial for you to lose your marriage or damage it in a lasting way with the current stand off...are you willing to take that risk? If not, what might be some steps you could take towards him? What steps would you hope he would take in return (be SPECIFIC....I'm not asking for "I want more emotional closeness"...I want to know specifically what things he could be doing -- ACTIONS).
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
