SE, Sounds like your H is dwelling on the past way too much and clings to his anger and resentment. It looks like, until he is ready to let go of this, he will not be ready to commit to your new R and M. I will venture that one small, percieved slight on your part, and he might be out th door. This must be very frustrating for you. After all you are trying and he seems to think you are not. Hang in there, and Rock On dudete .
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