Where's my pot of gold?

[StrongEnough]

Need sleep

I second that notion!! I think we could all use some extra sleep around these parts!

Thanks for the book recommendation.

You'll find a lot of threads in MLC to read and just remember MLC is not a single recipe since it involves depression, self esteem, identity crisis and possibly unresolved issues from early in life. It is often triggered by an event forcing one to review their life, like the loss of a loved one, a job, or a marriage. We don't see them processing these issues internally for months before the bomb falls, but it apparently does. I feel like it is a bump in the road to growth in life and the MLC person can't find their way over it or around. It's not all about age.

Ok, so are you saying the my H could possibly have been in MLC and is now coming out of it? I guess I am just confused because I really don't know a whole lot about MLC. He seems to have found his way over the "bump" by "realizing that he loved me, missed me and that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me". Again, not knowing much about MLC, are his actions NOW still part of cycle? Where as he could still be in MLC mode? He has always been impulsive. He overnight decided to he wanted me back. That has always been a big issue to me. Something about it never sat right with me. He describes it as "over a couple days" of thinking about it. I could this where this might be MLC like behavior. Then again, I am starting to realize that I didn't know as much about my situation as I thought I did, this has been a real eye opener for me.

Thanks.

~SE