Strong, I just finished reading your thread. I do not have any advice for you...other than to do what you feel is right. I did not even think of what my reaction would be if my W asked to reconcile. I guess, my initisl response would be pure joy, which would then be tempered by the lingering pain and hurt. Now that I think about it more reconciling aint gonna be as easy as I thought. The one thing that would linger in my mind would be is sh thinking of doing this again. First let us get through the D on Feb. 2 and take it from there. I think I have a solid 1-2 years before reconciliation is even on the table. Its a long shot. Reading your thread has made it very clear that I just need to work on myself...period.
