Where's my pot of gold?

[StrongEnough]

good that he's bummed, means he's feeling the reality of life and decisions....I'm really keeping my fingers crossed for you that this lasts and is productive for him.

Me too Always. I really hope he sticks with him for himeslf. Even if we do part ways, he will STILL be a better person for it. He has a lot of his healing and growing to do. I can't do that for him.

Check out the Newcomer's thread. Something there posted by TJ about "men in relationsips" or something to that effect. Talking about a DB'er get-together in this area. I know it's a long way, you interested? So far, I think I am the only woman in this area and told them I couldn't go if I was the only woman, I would have nobody to go to the ladie's room with!!!!

At any rate. I am hanging in there. I feel good today. A local gym is recruiting 50 people for a 21-day trial program that they are testing and I signed up. Getting my butt to the gym! I feel good about that decision. It is so close that I could walk there. Plus it's all women, so that makes the environment a little better.

I think he's just feeling guilty that there ever was a "thin.

I honestly feel that he doesn't hold guilt anymore. I will disagree with you that he is going to see that OW and all that "great stuff" was unreal. He has stood by his "credit giving" since the day he came back home.

Time will tell.....one day at a time.....but I am going to continue to work on me, go to the gym and lose my vanity pounds, pamper myself and dust of my nice clothes and stop living in sweat suits. It is a bad habit I got in after all the surgeries and I am going to break it. Time to make ME feel good about ME.(again)

~SE