Oh, and about the alcoholism and depression. It also runs in my family too, as well as drug addicitions. So, I am not immune to the lifestyle of an addict or alcoholic. I lived through it much of my life. I know that H had it a lot harder then I did. His parents got D when he was very young. His D is the alcoholic. He was constantly shifted back and forth between the two. His mom would meet a new guy and send him to live with his dad, his dad would be drunk 24/7 and H would have to fend for himself. Eventually, when he got to his teen years, his living arrangements became more unstable and he would rely on living with friends and their families, or who ever would take him in. H really had a tough childhood, and I know that has a lot to do with the way he is today. It's also why he isn't close w/his parents. I don't think he ever felt loved or wanted by them after their D.
So, his dad is an alcoholic and his mom is on her third marriage and she's had A's in the past. Not a strong moral support system there. I hope he can address this in C. I think he feels he is over it since it happened so long ago.
~Strong
I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.
Me-32 WAH-35 DD-11 DS-4 H left 11-03 Piecing- 12/04 WAH again- 03/07 Married 12 years Divorce final May 15, 2007