Good for you! You did great. It is difficult not to get wound up in your hurt feelings and shut down...but like you said, that's a vicious cycle...so sometimes you have to conciously break that cycle. What you did was perfect.
Now...from time-to-time you might just try strutting around in the stuff you know he likes, but don't do anything necessarily....see if he'll come to you. He was obviously appreciative of you physically, and if you feel like following-through, do so....but one of these times just see if he follows through without you having to do anything else We already know he is a visual person since he uses websites etc.
We already know he is a visual person since he uses websites etc.
