Sorry to hear you are in this boat with the rest of us! If porn is part of his sex life why not make it part of yours too? That is something I would do with an ex-BF that was into porn. He had the mags laid out on the pillow behind me sometimes or sometimes I would make like I was licking the girls in the mags. That turned him on so much he pretty quickly forgot the porn and focussed on the real life hot momma underneath him! This was not EVERY time we ML just a variation on what we did together. IOW I did something for him that turned him on - surely that is what ML is all about. Sometimes guys have a problem explaining why they like porn and feel that their SO will not like it. BTW once we would get going the mags would wind up on the floor someplace and he would tell me I was way hotter than any of those girls! Which I guess is what you are looking for, him to tell you and act like YOU are the real thing for him and not those fantasy women.
If he likes it and gets turned on by it why not see if he would like you to join the party?
take care
Fran
Last edited by haphazard; 01/15/0611:57 AM.
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