Okay, the link to my sitch is above. I really am at a loss for what to do. She really wants to have her cake and eat it too, but I struggle with allowing her to see OM while keeping the stability of our home intact. But should I? Is it the right thing to do? I guess she's going to see him with or without my blessing, but I'm just really messed up right now. To much up and down emotionally.
I really think I need to seek out a counselor, but I want to be sure that its someone that is more geared towards saving a marriage rather than giving it up. Any suggestions on how I find such a person? This is the first time in my life that I've ever thought of seeking outside help and I don't know what to do. Thanks for any suggestions.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
