I did send you several emails starting at around 8:30 my time. Hope you got them forwarded. I am checking out now for bed. I don't think I will be able to sleep well knowing you're in this sitch and I will no doubt get up to check in. I am getting your email so hopefully you are getting mine. Oh, and put the glass down at some point. It won't help, or so I've heard...
Quote: Remember one you that I'd be handling it any better. Actually you know I wouldn't and you would be here trying to talk me down off the ledge. thing, some things you say tonight may be final and you may not have a chance to take them back. I know you think you want that, but you haven't worked this hard and suffered this much to blow it all on a cheap satisfying F-YOU to her, did you? I believe in you. Believe in yourself.
TMU
I have worked hard, and suffered alot! So have many others! I do not want to do anything I will regret, yet I want to do something to Tim and stand up for myself! The debate on the doormat issue has been going on, and I feel this is the last time I want boots on my back! Can I forgive her. Sure. Do I want her back, and continue to ride the rollercoaster.......?
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
Quote: Tim I'm a little confused. Was your W going out with OM to have a "last supper" and end the R?
Has she always told you in the past when she was going to meet him?
Spitfire
From what she said she was going to have supper and end it! Yes she has told me before when she was going to meet him when she was "planning" to end it previously (obviously never did) The big problem I have is having him coe over and pick her up...no need for that, and no respect for me! The second is diner does not take over 4hrs!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
You know I have said that over much less so... You may not feel like continuing right now, but we all know that different days bring different emotions. Maybe just go to bed and don't wait up for her. Have it out tomorrow? Just trying...
If I go to bed now there is the chance when she comes home that we will sleep together.....and right now for the first time in my life I do notwant to sleep beside my W!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
