Damn Tim. This sucks to say the least. I am hurting for you so much! I am at a loss. I guess if I am to remain positive, I will say that there are a ton of people here who have endured more and held together. I know him picking her up is WAY over the boundaries, but the fact that she's still seeing him makes it sorta like my sitch. I don't know what I would do if my W did that. I think it would be time to talk to her about boundaries and what I would put up with and what I would not. This may be one of those letting go times when you really are tested to see if you can do this. As far as her coming clean, maybe it's time for that but first you need to get hold of your anger. You need to try to focus on your ultimate goal. I know you want to give up. I know I would too. Hell, I do a lot of the time now. Be strong, and try to calm down. She is still thinking of herself, and that hasn't changed. She's been better towards you but you knew not to buy into that. I don't know what else to say man other than keep fighting and don't let this be the end. It's over when YOU say it's over. God, I wish I could think of more to say. PLEASE post more tonight. I will do my best to check before bed. If you need to send me an email, you can do that as well. I want to help you so much. Please, everyone, chime in and help Tim, he needs us right now!
