I THINK I AM DONE! I WANT OUT! THIS BULLSH#$#$T! Just as I am leaving work my W calls and says se is going out to dinner with the OM, and she needs to end this! To say the least I am shockedon the phone! The she proceeds to tell me that he is coming to the house to pick her up and if I am OK with that! All I say is she has to do what she thinks is right, and then we say good bye! I call her right back and say I don't want to see him and I don't want the kids to see him pick her up! She says they should be gone when I get home with the kids and thekids know who he is! I almost explode and just say Bye! WTF WTF WTF! Obviously I am a fool! This is more than just a passing thing with the OM because I checked the phone, and she called him several times today! (Glad she does not know how to erase re-dial) If she doesn't come clean on what is going on I think I have hit my limit and she needs to get her own life with this alcoholic, gambling, controling manipulating man that she wants to be with so bad! Using a statement from my W "I deserve better than this!" This is a bunch of crap!
Tim
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