There has been so much that has ahappened but I have just talked about the incidents that stuck out in my mind! This morning was interesting because I did not sleep last nite, and she was just in a daze again! Finally I said enough and went over and just gave her a hug! ALl I said was "I am here when you want to talk." She said thanx. Then before she left she asked me a real tough question: "Why do you put up with me?" WOW! Had to pause and keep my inside voice on the inside because I have been questioning why alot lately....All I said was because "I love you" very calmly. She hugged me and I said "I miss talking to you" and she said me too! My therapist said it is like dealing with an adolscent child in her actions, choices, and trying to interpret what she is trying to say because of the lack of communication! I am just glad my kids are only 2 and 4 because I could not handle 3 teenagers in the house right now! I should not complain as bad as I am because there are some baby steps forward right now. They are small so it is still hard to determine if we are going in the right direction!
Tim
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