Well it has been interesting! Hi lites of what happened My W came home and was wearing her wedding ring! Too tired to talk but did say she wore it because it made her feel close to the kids and I while she was gone! She went downstairs to call her friend who is having marital problems. Took her cell phone with her. Heard them taking and then after about 1/2 she closed the basement door. Another 1/2 goes by and I want to go to bed, and all my bathroom stuff is downstairs. So I knock on the door..wait..knock again...then enter. There she is crying in computer room, on her cell phone! She waves to me to get out! I just walk upstairs and go WTF is going on! Long story short, she came back up went to bed. Said nothing! I goto bed. Touch her head, and she says she will loose it if I am nice to her right now! Morning comes she thanks me for giving her the space she needs, and being there for as her friend. She also said she needs to feel the pain on her own and not use me as a crutch! We left this morning and she was wearing her rings again! No idea what is happening, no communication, but I am going to give her the space she needs. I just hate the non-communication, and seeing her hurt so openly! I need to keep my distance, and start putting some boundaries up in our R.
Tim
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