Quote: TMU: The fact is that you are still dealing with her as if she's living in YOUR world that YOU create in your head. She is in HER world that SHE creates in HER head. You have nothing to do with it. It's really hard to understand that when they occupy so much of our hearts and minds, but it's the truth.
Well said! I needed to hear that too today. We are NOT in the same world.
W and I spent a few hours together with D10 in the car and stuff and we talked a lot, I felt like we connected, but I have to keep remembering that SHE is not in MY world. When she was talking about things she wanted to do with her life, it is her life WITHOUT ME. I'm going to digest it and post to my thread but for Tim I'll say it again: IT SUCKS! BUT YOU HAVE TO STOP PURSUING. YOU HAVE TO BACK OFF AND LET HER GO. I hate it too!
And, when you DO back off and it looks like she is coming towards you, you have to STAY backed off or she will run away.
I love ya man, I hate seeing you suffer so much! I'm doing the same thing and it is HARD too.
