I thought about it... and I feel that serving the higher purpose is being true to myself! I look at my move as somethig that served me and my higher purpose! I gave up alot but I gained my kids back which is worthe everything, I gained a second chance with my W (still working on that), and I gained a new respect for myself that I can face these challenges in life and come out OK. So does that subscribe to the theory I am not sure! But one thing I do know is 10 or 12 years from now when the kids may start asking questions about what happened between mommy and daddy at that time in our lives I can proudly say what I did, and not be ashamed of it regardless of what my W thnks right now!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1