You're welcome Tim. Wanting so much more and expecting it are two very different things. I think it's safe to say that our wives will always know we want more but it's up to us to stop expecting it. I think that's all part of what looks like being taken for granted to them. The fact that we expect them to be a certain way makes them feel like we aren't giving them the chance to give us what we expect. We are really taking it, aren't we? I am just waxing philosophical today I guess in the absence of no real news on my front today. Anyway, be careful that you are not just being friends because it's what SHE wants, or for the kids. Be friends because you realize that it's what's best for YOU right now. You should never give up your dream of an intact marriage but neither should you cling to an image in your, or HER mind. I think you are going to be fine in this decision, you just need to stick to it.
