Is it fair to think that once again, according to this vision of manhood, that any man that would compromise his values (i.e. wife sharing) is somehow not a man at all? I ask because as "unmanly" as I am on certain levels, I struggle with this, as do I think Tim does (trying to get this back on course). Am I seen as a "man" by my W if I am sitting by, basically letting her do what she wants even though it goes against everything I stand for? I often wonder if your average "man" on the street (and actually I have been told this by a few men who know something of my sitch) would NEVER hesitate to kick his wife out on her arse for doing half of what ours have done. I don't have the answers but I am trying to be comfortable with my path and I think Tim is as well. It is a daily struggle.
