Yes Tim this is very, very hard and I'm sorry that we all find ourselves in this situation. I know you hurt for your wife but this is one area where you absolutely can not help her. She has turned away from you for now. Piling on the guilt only makes it that much harder to turn back. Trying to help her only makes her feel that much guiltier. Let's work on making Tim happy. Believe it or not this is truly what will make her happier. Hang in there guy it's an extreme love wank but you can do it.
