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Tim,

I'll take it a step farther and admit something that you may need to admit too; not only have I acted needy for a long time, I enjoy acting that way. It's a way for me to manipulate the situation so that even if she didn't feel like doing what I wanted, or having sex, giving me a hug, saying ILY, whatever, she would do it anyway out of pity...sad...wonder how long my wife has felt that way....

TMU




I wonder that to! I hate feeling her actions aren't genuine and does she really want to say I love you, or even just give me a hug!
I want that day when she comes to me for the same reasons I come to her! It was starting that is why I am so torn and mixe up right now!


Tim my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1