I would send the card and keep it short! Maybe I can hijack your posting to get help with mine! You can read my sitch but my W is going away this weekend to write a big 2 day exam fo her paramedics. I was planning to send flowers with heart felt message. Originally it was going to be red rose and "I love you, thinking of you, and I know you will do awesome! Good luck! The kids and I are very proud of you" Now do I still send flowers....roses? Daisies? What?
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
