My h told me something last night after almost 16 yrs of marriage I didn't know. I knew he had come home and found his mom had died in her bed. He was 17 at the time. What I didn't know is they lived in an apartment and he was only upstairs w/friends and I guess she must have called 911 for help because the dispatcher for some reason called the house he was at. They asked if anyone had called from there and not knowing they said no, later to come home and find his mom. His brother (10 yrs older) I guess at some point had told him he let his mom die. Well I now see this guilt he may be carrying around,but doesn't admit to it. He says I didn't do anything wrong, but does he really feel like he is to blame? I know there was probably some issues maybe unsolved with his mom and he was unable to get closure on them.
