I think that is what will work best for me. I have learned through all this that the only thing I can control is myself. And DBing has taught me so much about myself and how I interact with others. I have found myself again and that is so wonderful. So, I may not save my M but I saved myself. And I will need to keep DBing into the future. It will be useful in all of my future relationships. Hope this helps you...
WCB
God grant me the serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change,
To change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr
