(((Beth))) I am sorry you got the news that we all don't want to get. Maybe once the papers are filed it may hit your H that he could lose you forever if the divorce goes through. He may back out or drag the divorce out. At least that's what has happened in my sitch. H even told me that he knew once the D was finalized that I would be gone for good and he wasn't ready for that. But now I'm the one going through with the D because I am tired of living in Limbo Land while he's living in Never Never Land.

Hang in there sweetie, it's just one of many obstacles we have to go through and in the end you'll be a stronger woman.


M:43
H:37
D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his)
S: 10/2004
Bomb: 2/15/05
In/out of home
Living with OW #4
Talks of D for 2-1/2 years