WCB,
Oh honey...
Even when prepared for that outcome, it's still a 2nd bomb to contend with. Allow yourself some tears. You can indulge yourself for this moment of time.
I've seen how much you've grown and know that you will be even better for having endured this painful experience. As they say, "What doesn't kill us makes us stronger."
When you've gotten out the tears, how about treating yourself. A massage or pedicure or a day at the baths. And maybe some more flirtinis! I'm curious by the way, what is in that?