Well, Kismet locked me out. She gets the wine! What will it be? Perhaps champagne?
I hate coming up with thread names. It is such hard work. I'm not the creative writer like Al, Anna, Kismet, Sassy, and flaneur. (I'm sure I am missing someone!) I have that scientific mind that wants to think everything through! Make sure I know everything about what I'm doing! Why I have spent a fortune at Borders and B&N? So I apologize for the bad thread title. I try though. Do I get an A for effort?
Saw my therapist tonight. She is really proud of me. Can see that I am starting to move on. That I haven't closed the door, but that I'm also not waiting around for something to happen. It's funny. I do miss my H but not nearly as much as I used to. Actually, he really annoys me sometimes. I have gotten used to my life without him around. It's ALOT less stressful! (I hear you Kismet!) I'm not killing myself trying to keep things calm and make him happy. That was way too much work. I know I can't go back there.
So, no big changes. Still here and still rambling. I had posted about self esteem and the WAS before my thread locked up. Anyone else see a tie - in between their WAS and the WAS's low self esteem? (Thanks Kismet and Lisa for your insights!)
Cheers to you all!
WCB
God grant me the serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change,
To change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr
