Good luck today! Hope it goes fast and that your H helps you through it.
I might have mentioned this book before but it really helped me and I think it might be of help in your sitch: How to Divorce as Friends by Bill Ferguson. THe idea being that you can have a friendly divorce or even let go enough to maybe work on it again. It is a simple powerful book that has you look at yourself and challenges you to give the R permission to end...again it does not mean you give up on it but that you release the outcome. Not that this book "cured" me but it was a huge help and I refer to it often.
hang in there. I will sending some good karma your way today!!!
hugs, brava
Me: 36 He: 34 no kids Married: 2000 He left: July 05