Thanks hope- There are times when i do believe that our R is taking a turn for the better. But, i am so suspicious of him that i find it hard to really hold on to that. I don't know what to make of him...he is so baffling. I just hope that if he is planning on filing, then he won't drag it out too much longer. I mean, its great for him, as he has obviously moved on. But, here i stand...can't go backwards and can't go forwards...so, i am literally stuck. I just wish i could know for sure what he is thinking. But, i can't. So, here i stand, hoping that my H will come to his senses.