I can understand why you hang on though. I mean from what you share here, you have much better interaction with your H. than I do. He calls you to compliment you, you see him on your visits to your home, etc. I don’t receive any of that so I think my situation is far more negative. We don’t know what your H. is thinking, but he is giving you more positive signs, so I can see why you would hang in there. If I were getting that kind of response from my H. I would definitely be doing the same thing. They say we’ll know when we’ve had enough. I hope we are at peace with it, when the time comes. Frankly, I’m scared I won’t be. Good luck today!
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.