Egawds...the PHONE issue...so I am not alone here with this. Funny Bryce (Daves Best Friend) and I were talking the other night about this. I always told Dave to go out and have guy time. It was something that I thought was just important. A little male bonding..you know. Anyway, all I ever asked was that he gave me a guestimate of when he was going to be home...would he be home for dinner. I'd call if I heard nothing from him. He'd never call back. I rarely did much as far as going out without him. I'll never forget one night I was out with a GF meeting her new BF Dave must have called about 10 times in a matter of 2hrs. Finally I was soooo embarrassed I said that I really needed to get home that my daughter wasn't feeling well. I got in the car and called him back (I had been ignoring his calls) and I said you know I really never go out...what's up...he said oh just checking to make sure you were okay...like you do me. ARGH!!!!

Bryce told me that Dave had said to him on several occassions "Yeah, had to lay down the law and tell her that I was going out tonight with you." When he told me that the other night, I laughed in hysterics. He really did have an issue there about being a man...because it was me always pushing him out to go do things. I think he had to prove himself to his best friend and pretend that he was in control of our R. But honestly, I never cared...as long as I knew he was okay it was all good.


love, laughter and friendship, Lisa