Hope- I don't know how patient my H is. When i moved back home, he moved out about a week later. And after a few days, he was insisting that i move back out. I stalled for about 2 months, but he just made it so unbearable. The things he said and did while i still lived there were appalling. He was so nasty. He basically harrassed me until i left. If i was still living there, and he wasn't, i can bet you that things b/w us would be a lot different. But, he got what he wanted...and i didn't.
