So good of you to share all of that. Thanks. I know you’ve been through so much already, and you still hang in there. I don’t think my H. is going to be as patient as yours. In my situation, as you know, I live in our house; H. is staying in a house w/roommates that a family member owns. In his eyes, I have all the homey comforts and should have no complaints. He misses our house and what we have there; he just doesn’t want to live there with me. If we were in a situation like yours, where I moved out and he lived there, I am sure he would allow a lot more time before he decided to file. But given that it’s the way it is, he isn’t likely to let this drag on for much longer. As he tells me, he needs to live his life. I think he needs to wrap up his old one before he can do that. I do hope that your situation works out in your best interest. You have worked so hard to save your M. and that is admirable. You are right, things can change so quickly. I have already seen this happen in just the last few months. One never really knows.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
