Hey PandDBing-
No intrusion at all...i welcome your feedback!
H and I are intimate probably about once per week. It is usually when i am "visiting" my cats. I would say, over the past 6 to 8 weeks, my H has made more attempts to have face to face contact with me. He used to avoid coming home while i was still at the house. But, now, he doesn't seem to mind as much. So, that is a positive.
I could stop for a while and see what happens. He might not notice, b/c as i said, its usually not planned...it just happens. So, i will try it this weekend and see what happens. Thanks!