Wow Imdi. When you get it right, you get it right.
I feel exactly the same way about not wanting the man my H is now. I feel like he shows so much concern for everyone else in his life (in my opinion a bit too much) and so little concern for me.
In the beginning of our R, my H was super attentive--lots of flowers, back massages, cooking, cleaning. It actually drove me crazy and I completely took him for granted.
In an argument we had recently I told him I felt badly for him because it was truly going to suck when the yin-yang of it all came back to him. He said maybe what was happening was it coming around. It really reminded me that I used to complain that he called too much, said ILY too much. Man, what was wrong with me that I didn't see how great he was.
