See?!?! Don’t you feel SO much better that HE called you? I got the same last night. I hope kitties are ok. What’s going on with them? Why the vet? And he did notice you hadn’t been calling, thus the “are you still alive” remark. Baby steps, Imdi. Pinky swear.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.