Okay...
H just called me...at work, not even on my cell! He asked how i was (after commenting on how pleasantly i answered my phone...he always used to say that i was very abrupt when i answer the phone...so we laughed at that)...i said fine. He said "oh, i was just calling to see if you were still alive." I said "yes, i'm still alive...are you?" So, i guess it might have annoyed him that i hadn't called. Chatted for a bit. Then he said he was calling for another reason (heart drops in my stomach)...about taking the cats to the vet (relief!). So, we talked about it..who was going to take them, etc. I asked if we could go together so that i could get used to taking our girl (we are splitting them)...he said that was fine. So, a good conversation. Ended it with "okay sweetie...i'll talk to you."

Yes, i feel like a jackass for sitting here, complaining. But, i do feel so much better. Thanks for tolerating my tantrum!