As my therapist (whom I've only seen once so far) would say "You're doing it again!" What she means by that is worrying about what or why something is being done or not done by our spouses is counterproductive. We need to focus on why we do things and maybe our reaction to what they do. We cannot control them but we CAN influence them to see the light. By making him call you, you are showing showing strength. He knows you want to call, and you want HIM to call you but he does not necessarily care what you want. You are demonstrating that you are surviving (even if you're not) without that call and without him. If he is at all curious, he'll call. You can't expect (and I'm really talking to myself now) him (her) to behave in a way that you think makes sense. With any luck (and prayer) at all he'll come back to reality and then you can expect non-alien behavior. Until then, maintain....
