Imdi,

I’m glad you are enjoying the Laci book. I am almost finished with it.
I am so sorry for what your aunt said. You know she is probably just saying those things out of love and concern. She doesn’t like seeing you sad, while she knows H. is out with someone else. But of course you are right—he IS still your H. and there is nothing wrong with keeping faith in that. It’s true! I feel the same way, even though mine is with o.w., too. Maybe you could let her know that these kinds of comments are hurtful to you, and while you appreciate her concern, what you need is support and understanding. I have had to say the same to some of my family members.
Try to have a good day, Imdi, and I’m here if you need to talk.
Hope


Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.