hate to hijack, but just to answer that quickly: In short, my wife had an ea, turned into a pa. We broke up a year and a half ago, but kept in touch, and got together every now and then for a lunch or something similar, as after about 6 months, I earnestly DBed and really stayed on track. Rebuilt my life in the process. We've gotten divorced, and just yesterday, she emailed me expressing some regret and looking like she's coming out of her fog. Finally! Though there's no great significance to that, it's just the path she's on. It's been a long effort and I've been pretty meticulous, as others will vouch for. I've grown a lot, understand a lot, and have been through a lot, for which I'm ever grateful.
