I've been trying to learn from the interaction on your thread and it is certainly digging deeper than some on this board. I had a micro-event yesterday that sent me into a real tailspin after I thought I was finally getting it.
I "stated" some advice in an email that I thought would show me as being supportive to my W who is to interview for a job. All I wanted was to show my support. I got a nice enough reply to the effect that she does not want any advice as she is quite capable and has a proven record of success at interviewing without my help ..... Ok, so then I dwelled all night on the idea that I pssed her off when I wasn't trying to, will we ever learn to communicate, is that my future, ....
With my recent stumble on my mind I wanted to jump in and ask about your offer to help your W if she does pursue the business.
How much do you feel you need to lead that conversation? How much do you think you can give her room and watch cautiously? I'm sure you'd be 110% thrilled at her individual success. How can you let her know you are here for her if she has questions or just wants to test ideas.
Guess, I'm back to how men "state" and women "discuss". Looking forward to seeing things move forward for you both.
